Step 1: Your Name

Step 2: WhatsApp Number

Step 3: Email Address

Step 4: Where do you live?

Step 5: Where are you likely to socialise? (max 2)

Step 6: Gender

Step 7: Social Group Preference (max 2)

Same gender I Don't Mind Couples LGBTQ+

Step 8: Languages Spoken (max 3)

Step 9: Age

Step 10: Social Energy (max 2)

Step 11: Cat or Dog?

Cat person Dog person Both Neither

Step 12: Activities & Interests (max 4)

Step 13: Main Friendship Group (max 2)

School/Uni Work Childhood Working on it

Step 14: Your London Story

Just moved here Been here a few years Lived here for years Born and Raised

Step 15: Alcohol Preference

I enjoy drinking I sometimes drink Don't mind others I avoid alcohol places

Step 16: Profession

Step 17: Food

Adventurous Picky

Step 18: How did you hear about us?

Flyer Social Media Street Team Word of Mouth

Step 19: Best Friendship Memory

Step 20: thecommonPact

Upon joining, we ask all members to commit to:

Show up: Send a meaningful message to your group within 4 days of joining
Meet up: Actively participate in planning and attend your first in-person gathering within two weeks
Be kind: Treat everyone with respect and openness

These commitments help create the connections everyone's looking for. If you're going through a busy period, we'd genuinely love to have you join when you can be present — you'll get so much more out of it, and your group will too.

Note that thecommon is not an instant service. Matching you to your right people takes time and care. We ask for a little patience to allow for the best outcome. In the meantime, our team will reach out to you within 48 hours to talk you through the process.

By selecting ‘Register your interest’, you can agree to this pact and your information will be submitted for review. This will also indicate acceptance of our terms and privacy policies.